<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><rss xmlns:atom='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' version='2.0'><channel><atom:id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513</atom:id><lastBuildDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 19:15:40 +0000</lastBuildDate><title>Leadership Solutions from Read Solutions Group</title><description>Global leadership to achieve sustainable improvement and change.</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/coachblog.html</link><managingEditor>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</managingEditor><generator>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>113</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-8219642024460597544</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 22:34:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-02-16T03:15:40.350+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>overcoming resistance to change</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>change</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>adapting to change</category><title>When Leaders Resist</title><description>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;In December I attended a workshop on Creating a Lean Culture. The focus of the discussion was on what Toyota has done to establish a culture of continuous improvement in its operations. While Toyota has developed a unique culture (despite the recent recalls), it is difficult to translate the Toyota Way into other organizational contexts. This is particularly true for the companies that are implementing Lean or Six Sigma concepts in existing, reasonably successful companies or operating units.  Yet the question among the workshop attendees was often not “What should we be doing?” but rather, “What do you do when a leader resists?” &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;It often appears and it’s certainly conventional wisdom that whether the change in lean, six sigma, a new IT system, or a benefits change, some leaders and managers will resist the change. When it’s the successful, seasoned mid-level leaders, it can be extraordinarily difficult to bring them around. This article speaks to a few strategies that can prove useful in breaking down the resistance and inviting these leaders to join the change. While the example is a lean implementation, I encourage you to rewrite this story with the change that is underway in your organization.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Meet Larry. Larry is a plant manager. He’s been at this facility for 15 years, the last 7 as plant manager. He’s successfully managed or led the plant through capital projects, labor negotiations, environmental incidents, seasons of sold-out production and full line shutdowns. The plant safety scores are continuously improving and he regularly meets his cost reduction targets. Larry is well-respected at his plant, within in his community, by his peers and by the business head. Having outlived most of the corporate programs, he’s expecting to do it again with this change. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Larry’s a smart guy. He’s joined the tours to “best practice” facilities. He’s read the articles. He’s listened to the successes, challenges and failures of his colleagues who’ve moved forward with the changes. He doesn’t argue that it won’t work. He doesn’t block the consultants from running their workshops. He even gives one of his people, perhaps not one of his stars, the role of project lead, and dutifully reports at the quarterly reviews the work that is going on at the plant. Yet everyone knows that that little is actually happening. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Larry may be someone you know, or you may need to influence people like Larry. I invite you to read the rest of this article to identify some strategies for working with Larry. If none of its working for you, or you’ve lost patience, give me a call and we can talk about how I can I support you in developing new strategies, or I can work directly with Larry in moving through the change.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;As mentioned before, Larry is smart guy and he’s seen and heard all of the evidence. Nonetheless, as organizations frequently made up of engineers and accountants, we fall back on trying to move him with either 1) evidence or 2) management “persuasion”. Consider how ineffective solid evidence is in changing many behaviors, such as, flossing, exercise, smoking, speeding, etc. While evidence of the value of a change is critically important, the most compelling evidence to a person if what they experience. Larry’s evidence is that he’s been successful, is successful, and believes that he knows how to continue to be successful. Furthermore, Larry knows that his past success has involved avoiding these “passing fads”.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Before considering useful strategies, we want to begin with recasting the resistance. In 1999, Dent and Goldberg in “&lt;a href="http://www.uncp.edu/home/dente/resist4.html"&gt;Challenging A Resistance to Change&lt;/a&gt;” argue that accepting the conventional wisdom that people naturally resist change leads to counter-productive behaviors. Instead of looking at ways to overcome resistance (read more in my last &lt;a href="http://hosted.verticalresponse.com/163947/32923eb97d/28001833/b48825bc4d/"&gt;newsletter&lt;/a&gt;) , we’ll explore ways to influence behavior.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;ol  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;It’s too big, too much or unclear&lt;/span&gt;. Look to the success stories to identify for the “vital behaviors” – the smallest set of behaviors that will have the greatest impact. These are not thoughts, values, or qualities, but the very few “must do’s” that done consistently and persistently will lead to change. For more on Vital Behaviors see &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/007148499X?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=readsolutions-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=007148499X"&gt;Influencer&lt;/a&gt; by Patterson, Grenny, et al.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;People resist loss, not change.&lt;/span&gt; In the SCARF model suggested by David Rock (&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0061771295?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=readsolutions-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0061771295"&gt;Your Brain at Work&lt;/a&gt;), apparent resistant may come from feared changes in Status, Control, Autonomy, Relatedness, or Fairness. Explore and acknowledge what people may lose. Once the fears are identified, opportunities arise to address the fear, alter the change to minimize the impact, or allow the person to set aside the fear and proceed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Unclear alignment with personal goals.&lt;/span&gt; Support people in uncovering their goals and how the change fits in with them. Perhaps Larry is motivated by seeing teams get energized – show how your change will make that happen. Maybe Larry wants to keep things quiet until retirement, so taking a risk and working hard isn’t motivating; can he see this as leaving a legacy? Spend time on the values, goal and purpose looking for the places of alignment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;“You’re not listening.”&lt;/span&gt; Ford and Ford in Harvard Business Review April 2009 remind us to look at resistance as feedback. Focus on the purpose of the change and invite discussion, engagement, involvement and even refusal as you refine the change effort.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Plan for a marathon, not a sprint.&lt;/span&gt; New behaviors are often not easy and take time to become comfortable. People will experience challenges from others and from existing systems, and so need ongoing support. Unexpected roadblocks will arise. Build support teams, provide regular communications, celebrate what’s working, and add fun into the change. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;It often seems like most people are not wired for change; yet the reality is that we are marvelously equipped to accept, adapt to and adopt change. It is a reality of all elements of our lives – in our homes, in our family life, in our education, in our careers, in our economics, in our jobs. We may not always respond rationally to a change, but then doesn’t that in itself, give us clues on what strategies may begin to influence behavior.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;For help working with leaders who are (apparently) resisting change, send me an email at Sherry@ReadSolutionsGroup.com or leave a comment on the posting.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-8219642024460597544?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2010/02/when-leaders-resist.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-9067106650589559616</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 14:29:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-02-10T23:19:37.039+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>four rooms of change</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>four room apartment</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>change model</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>change</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>leadership</category><title>Four Rooms of Change</title><description>I had the opportunity to listen to Kenny Moore, the Monk from "&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0471450111?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=readsolutions-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0471450111"&gt;The CEO and the Monk&lt;/a&gt;" speak. He introduced the "&lt;a href="http://www.claesjanssen.com/four-rooms/about-the-four-rooms-of-change/index.shtml"&gt;Four Rooms of Change Theory&lt;/a&gt;" developed by Claes Janssen. While similar to other change models, this one offers some imagery that may be useful in conversations with managers. As with all models, it has some limitations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The premise is that all systems - individuals, teams, communities, organizations - live in a within a space of four rooms; often referred to as a 4 room &lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/uploaded_images/Four-Room-Apartment-717402.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 124px;" src="http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/uploaded_images/Four-Room-Apartment-717400.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;apartment. The rooms within this apartment are Contentment, Denial, Confusion and Renewal. According to Moore, people move from one room to the next when 1) they are ready, 2) life invites them, and 3) reality kicks them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When we look at this model in the context of organizational change, its very simplicity enables its use with management teams. It is easy to relate each room to life experiences, as Janssen and his collaborators have done.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What makes the model interesting for these discussions is the premise that people move of their own accord. As leaders, we can not push, pull, threaten or entice people from one room to the next. We can, however, work to "keep the doors open".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As we look more deeply at this model, we begin to notice the following questions:&lt;br /&gt;1. How do people behave in each room?&lt;br /&gt;2. What are the most effective leadership tools aligned with the behaviors each room?&lt;br /&gt;3. If every room is a necessary part of the change, what is the value of each room?&lt;br /&gt;4. Is there a way to "decorate" or light each room that makes it a safe place?&lt;br /&gt;5. How do we keep the doors open? Are there different strategies for different rooms?&lt;br /&gt;6. What organizational systems and structures keep doors open? Which ones shut doors?&lt;br /&gt;7. Is it true that the best thing that leaders can do is keep the doors open, and not push, pull, threaten or entice?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you've used this model, I invite your comments and thoughts. I'll use future blog posts to delve into my questions.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-9067106650589559616?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2010/02/four-rooms-of-change.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-7703955703224867218</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2010 19:12:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-01-16T03:39:31.057+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>overcoming resistance to change</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>resisting change</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>change</category><title>People resist loss, not change</title><description>So much is written about why employees resist change. Yet it takes little time to find research supporting the concept that resistance is an interpretation of the situation from the eyes of the change agent. In fact, most people recognize that change is inevitable - a reality of life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What people might resist is loss - loss of status, loss of certainty, loss of control, etc. Or perhaps they are mistrustful - whether of the message or the messenger.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What will the change agent see when they expect resistance to change? What will they miss when they focus their efforts on overcoming resistance to change?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-7703955703224867218?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2010/01/people-resist-loss-not-change.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-6619283838149298943</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 15:59:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-11-25T00:04:24.849+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>leadership competencies</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>executive coach</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>leadership agility</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>lean implementation</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>lean transformation</category><title>Creating Catalysts</title><description>&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Would you like to see your leaders creating breakthrough shifts in how the work is done? Would you like to see them consistently and naturally drawing together teams from all parts of the business to develop new and creative solutions? Would you like to see your leaders developing new ways for people to work together? Would you like to see your leaders routinely evaluating their own assumptions and working to understand the work through differing perspectives?&lt;br /&gt;Leaders who operate in these modes are Catalysts … catalysts for change. Whether driving LEAN manufacturing through an organization, moving into new markets, or integrating acquisitions, Catalysts have grown beyond the Achievers in their ability to bring people together to move a vision into reality. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;In the preceding postings, we have been exploring a competency model for leadership outlined by Joiner and Josephs in their recent book “Leadership Agility”. This newsletter will look at the implementation of Lean manufacturing system to point out the differences in how Achievers and Catalysts might approach the same work. We’ll end by identifying development opportunities that can be used to support competency development to the Catalyst level. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Consider the premise that there is always a way “to create more value with less work.” That is the basis of the process management philosophy exemplified by the Toyota Production System and now described simply as Lean (reference &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lean_manufacturing"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lean_manufacturing&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;). Let’s see if we can contrast how Lloyd, an Achiever, and Susan, a Catalyst might proceed in leading a Lean implementation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Lloyd is energized by the opportunity to lead the Lean transformation team for his organization. He believes strongly its philosophies and practices. He’s got a proven track record of being able to diagnose and resolve problems with innovative solutions. He knows that the key to his success will be in persuading others that Lean is a key to the future of his organization. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Susan is fascinated by the successes some companies have achieved with Lean. She’s also been exploring what sets apart the best from those that aren’t succeeding. She knows that the tools and structures are important, but has recognized that the key to success is in establishing a clear vision and then getting people from all levels of the organization involved. Susan has seen that if she can create a new way of working together, people will feel excited, empowered and energized. But she also knows that there will be a lot of different opinions on the value of lean and how to implement it. She is looking forward to getting the conflicts out on the table so that the best solutions arise. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Three months into the project Lloyd is noticing that the Purchasing group is routinely not following through on their team commitment. He knows that his conversation with the Purchasing Director will be pivotal. Before the meeting, Lloyd meets with his coach to prepare for this conversation. Lloyd’s coach helps him get clear on the outcomes he is seeking and the relationship he wants to have with the Purchasing Director. In the meeting, he is able to gain a better perspective on the challenges in Purchasing, while reminding the Purchasing Director of the management attention this project is getting. He leaves with agreement to Purchasing will live up to their commitments. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;While initially engaged in the work, Susan is noticing that the production planning group is resisting some of the initiatives. In reflecting on an earlier conversation with the Production Planning Manager, she realizes that neither of them really opened up about their differing priorities and there was no real commitment; in fact, the conversation created more distrust. Susan knows that she needs to lead the Lean implementation – it’s not negotiable – but that she needs to be looking for collaboration in the solution. Susan has learned that in the upcoming conversation that she’ll need to be explicit with her key priorities and assumptions throughout the conversation, and that she’ll need to be asking the questions to learn about the priorities and assumptions in Production Planning. With awareness of her own intent and behavior throughout the conversation, Susan was able to find opportunities for joint problem solving. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Lloyd is pleased to get some feedback from his management and HR that he’s really grown into his role as a manager. His team meetings are well attended and include a comfortable balance of information sharing and problem-solving. He’s finding that he can back away from troubleshooting specific problems and spend most of his time motivating his team members, providing support, breaking down barriers, and keeping everyone moving together. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Susan believes that the best solutions come from exploring a variety of perspectives, but is concerned that her participative approach will be seen as too “soft”. With the encouragement of her coach, she has begun to experiment with her team meetings in order to find a balanced power style. She works at encouraging discussion that examines issues from different perspectives. Her team is learning that sometimes she is looking to strengthen her idea, sometimes she is looking for new ideas, sometimes she negotiate a compromise within the team to keep things moving forward, and sometimes she lets her team have their way. She is realizing that valuing input is not the same as giving up her authority to decide the direction. She also finding ways to delegate leadership to people within her team and seeing this is accelerating their development. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Reflect on the stories of Lloyd and Susan. Who would you rather have working for you? Who would you rather have as a boss? Which organization will achieve the greatest transformation? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;The Catalyst level is a natural extension of the Achiever. The Achiever can be counted on to deliver results with a focus on solving the current problems and involving others through persuasion. The Catalyst is at a stage in his career when he sees the personal and organizational value in stepping out of the old ways of doing business, in building a participative team, and in finding creative ways to develop his direct reports. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;To develop an Achiever to the Catalyst level, coaching will focus on the following areas: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Deepening awareness of beliefs, values, and assumptions about yourself and others &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Discovering the interest in and value for helping others succeed &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Finding out what’s important to other people and connecting with it to make a difference for them &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Shifting from motivating and directing others to coaching and training &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Involving others in collaborative problem solving &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Increasing self-awareness in the moment, and learning how to adjust feelings and behaviors throughout interpersonal interactions &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Seeking and incorporating feedback into personal development &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;For more information on how Sherry L. Read, Principal and Executive Coach, Read Solutions Group works with developing and senior leaders to raise their competencies, contact Sherry at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="mailto:Sherry@ReadSolutionsGroup.com"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Sherry@ReadSolutionsGroup.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-6619283838149298943?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/11/creating-catalysts.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-2125141121695224541</guid><pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:28:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-11-04T05:30:38.060+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>leadership competencies</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>leadership agility</category><title>The Achievers</title><description>&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;The last posting described the Expert Leader in the following way:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;The Expert Leader is a strong, tactical problem-solver; someone you love to have&lt;br /&gt;on your team. You can depend on them to get the job done day after day. Yet the&lt;br /&gt;Expert Leader is often so focused on being seen as right that they forget to&lt;br /&gt;look at the bigger picture, or to bring other people along with them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Achiever combines leadership with technical capabilities in order to play on a bigger field. Let’s follow Mary from the last newsletter, on her career path to Regional Sales Manager. A few months into the job, Mary feels as though she has never worked harder in her life. There seem to be challenges with every client, personnel issues that are not being addressed, and errors being with the customer accounts. She says that she has no problem with delegation, yet it seems as though nothing is ever quite good enough for her. She wants to have real team meetings, but can barely find the time to get the work done. While Mary has been promoted, at this stage, her leadership skills remain at the Expert level.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Believing in Mary’s potential, her boss hires an executive coach. In reflecting on her desires for her leadership style, Mary tells her coach that she wants to create an environment where her team is both challenged and motivated, and where she can work on broader issues. With the support of her coach, Mary begins to schedule biweekly team meetings with the agenda focused on the key projects she has identified that will support sales throughout the region. She is seeing opportunities to use her team’s initiatives to change the sales process for the division. Mary is disciplining herself to listen more, use more questions than answers, and to choose the times when she makes the decision. Mary is making the shift to Achiever Level Leadership.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At the Achiever Level, leaders spend an increasing time delivering organizational outcomes versus solving discrete problems. They see their priority as delivering on the mandates of senior leadership and other stakeholders. The Achiever motivates his team by focusing on the larger objectives, inviting discussion, creative and healthy debate. He shifts his emphasis from managing tasks to managing people. This latter shift requires the Achiever to become more skillful and comfortable engaging in crucial conversations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Coaching at the Achiever Level&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Build self-awareness and intent:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Challenge the developing achiever to explore their experiences and strengths. Ask for reflections on personal growth – “How are you changing? How are you still the same as in earlier periods of your life?” Ask the Achiever to investigate how their actions reflect their values and beliefs. Inquire into the discrepancies between stated values and observable behaviors. Support the Achiever in building a coherent set of values and beliefs that will support their development as leaders. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Develop a breadth of perspective:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; The Achiever develops the ability to look at problems through an adjustable lens - zooming in and out on problems – looking forward and back, over short and long intervals. Invite the Achiever to envision a range of possibilities, to be open to “a right answer” rather than “the right answer”. Encourage the Achiever to analyze situations for patterns and to use this learning to find new ways to solve old problems. Notice that the Achiever, while aware of bias and error, will still depend heavily on their own sources of data and experience, and can become quickly closed to other perspectives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Use your team:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; The Achiever focuses more energy around motivating others, rather than giving orders. Question the Achiever on how she is using team meetings. – are they being used to gain buy-in and test their own ideas, or is the Achiever using the meetings to cast a wide net for new ideas? Is the team truly supportive of the leader’s direction or are there concerns and opportunities being left unsaid? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tackle the crucial conversations:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Coach the Achiever to explore the areas where they are holding back. The authors of Crucial Conversations tell us that these are conversations where the stakes are high, emotions may be high and there is an expectation of opposing opinions. Learning and practicing skills, employing them with all stakeholders, and growing with each experience is key to developing through this level.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Achievers are the key to leadership at many organizations today. They are strong at outlining their vision for an organization, at rallying the troops and executing on outcomes. They explore the landscape for changes in strategy, let go of the day-to-day, and are motivated by the success of the organization. Focusing on the behaviors above will enhance the success of the Achiever.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
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in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-2125141121695224541?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/11/achievers.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-8933143792170661162</guid><pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 17:52:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-10-15T01:54:34.230+08:00</atom:updated><title>The Expert Leader</title><description>&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;Mary is a sales manager responsible for leading a team to develop and maintain at key accounts. She has garnered the respect of her team and her leadership through her keen ability to resolve issues with the customers. When there’s a problem, she analyzes the situation, thinks through options, defends her position and takes pride in working through to a successful conclusion. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;Mary is typical of leadership at the Expert Level. She is a strong problem-solver who had developed an ability to think independently, to analyze the situation and to take a stand when she knows she’s right. With a focus on the steps to be taken and the desired outcomes, she leads her team through implementations of the solutions. She works hard to develop, support and defend her team, making sure that she is always pushing them for further growth. She thrives on being seen as the expert who understands the business and the customers. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;Expert Leaders build strong relationships within their organization and with their management, yet tend to put little energy into building relationships with other units. The Expert Leader’s focus on analysis and tactics frequently leads them to focusing more on the “rightness” of their position, rather than buy-in, from their own group or from other key stakeholders. They frequently overlook the impact of stakeholder’s views on the ultimate effectiveness of a solution. Driving to solve problems, the Expert Leader deals with each issue as a discrete problem, often losing the opportunity to step back and find a broader, innovative solution. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;The Expert Leader is unlikely to seek feedback from her team or peers. This plays out in different ways, depending on the natural style of the individual. With an assertive style, she will frequently overlook or dismiss options that suggest she’s less than fully correct. With an accommodating style, he’ll frequently overload himself with work, correcting other’s work to his standards, and limiting his availability to give feedback and coaching. A key development challenge for the Expert Leader is finding a style that opens them up to giving and receiving feedback. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;Within her organizational unit, an Expert Leader is likely to function more as a supervisor than a manager. Problem-solving and direction-setting discussions are typically held one-on-one, with group meetings relegated to information sharing. In fact, the direct reports of an Expert Leader are likely to function as a group, at best, and rarely as the team that might arise if the Expert Leader were more open to other opinions and options. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"&gt;Developing the Expert Leader&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;ol style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana"&gt;&lt;li&gt;Define the leadership ideal. The Expert Leader is working towards an ideal of being smart, efficient, capable, and looked to as the Expert. Challenge the Expert Leader to observe the style of leaders they admire, and to notice how they look to and motivate others to make more strategic changes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Learn to seek feedback. The Expert Leader finds it faster and more efficient to advocate for their position. Seeking feedback requires the Expert Leader to find a balance between efficiency and effectiveness. Feedback can start with understanding the impact of their style through a 360 assessment. In addition, the Expert Leader can be challenged to notice when input from a broader group resulted in a better outcome. The Expert Leader is often unaware of how their biases, beliefs and standards may blind them to alternatives; place the Expert Leader into situations where their existing frameworks cannot be taken for granted.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Build team leadership skills. The Expert Leader can be coached to use meetings to generate and listen to ideas, to leverage the skills of the team members and to build group understanding and buy-in to a direction. The Expert Leader may need to retain ultimate decision-making authority; yet schooled in curiosity and inquiry, the Expert Leader can learn how to develop a team. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana"&gt;In the next posting, we’ll contrast the Expert Leader with the Achiever in how they view leadership, how they manage pivotal conversations, and their agility in leading teams. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
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in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-8933143792170661162?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/10/expert-leader.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-1634305044650568851</guid><pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2009 23:35:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-10-05T07:36:04.870+08:00</atom:updated><title>A Model for Leadership Agility</title><description>&lt;p style="font-family: verdana; font-style: italic;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;             &lt;font size="2"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 128);"&gt;At the International Coach Federation Conference in November 2008, I was introduced to a new leadership competency model. A model focused on enabling leadership in a rapidly changing world.  I invite the reader of my blog to join with me on a journey through the book.  By summarizing the work of the authors in these writings, I process the information for myself, and hopefully encourage you to look more deeply into this insightful book, and into your own development as a leader.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;             &lt;font size="2"&gt;A competency is defined as a measurable characteristic of a person related to success at work. It can be a skill, an attribute, or an attitude. Competency models can span the range from what it takes to be a successful professional – Action-orientation, Interpersonal Communication, Integrity – to senior-level positions – Managing Vision, Strategic Thinking, Dealing with Paradox. Yet if, as columnist Eric Dezenhall of BusinessWeek suggests, crises are the rule, not the exception, for Obama, as the leader of the United States, what then faces the business leader in this world of globalization, economic crises, requirements for rapid change, uncertainty and new competition - a paradoxical place of diversity and connectedness. While traditional competency models remain valid and informative, the question is do they go far enough to address the agility needed to keep pace, or lead, in this complex world. &lt;/font&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;             &lt;font size="2"&gt;Joiner and Josephs posit a competency model for leaders exploring levels of agility in four key areas – context-setting, stakeholder, creativity, and self-leadership in their book &lt;a href="http://cts.vresp.com/c/?ReadSolutionsGroup/b0da983bec/0eab3e38fd/81f20c4cb0/ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=readsolutions-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0787979139"&gt;Leadership Agility: Five Levels of Mastery for Anticipating and Initiating Change&lt;/a&gt;.               &lt;/font&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;ul style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;li&gt;               &lt;font size="2"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Context-setting agility&lt;/span&gt; involves scanning the situation, evaluating the changes taking place and considering the best initiatives in light of your purpose. &lt;/font&gt;               &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;               &lt;font size="2"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Stakeholder agility&lt;/span&gt; requires the ability to understand the perspectives and realities of those people and organizations that have a stake in, or will be impacted by your initiatives, and to consider how best to engage them. &lt;/font&gt;               &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;               &lt;font size="2"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Creative agility&lt;/span&gt; involves learning from past experiences as well as seeking new and different ways of solving complex problems.               &lt;/font&gt;               &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Self-leadership agility&lt;/span&gt; requires discipline and skill in self-awareness of thoughts, feeling and behaviors, and the motivation to continue to develop and grow. &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;             &lt;font size="2"&gt;Joiner and Josephs define five levels in each in of these areas which when combined are named &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Expert&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Achiever&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Catalyst&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Co-Creator&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Synergist&lt;/span&gt;. At each of these levels, they define the typical set of behaviors that would be seen in how leadership is viewed, pivotal conversations, agility in leading teams, and organizational change leadership. Let’s look briefly at how these five levels might vary by looking a leader new into his or her role. &lt;/font&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;             &lt;font size="2"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Expert:&lt;/span&gt; When the expert steps into a new role with energy, drive and leadership, they jump right in. Meetings are held everyone, reports and data are combed through, conclusions are drawn, new directions are set and communicated and the Expert leads the organization in solving the key problems. &lt;/font&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;             &lt;font size="2"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Achiever:&lt;/span&gt; The achiever arrives with a clear understanding of her mandate. She spends a lot of time getting to know her team, being visible, and creating a consistent message of the direction of the organization. She brings her team together to outline the strategy, and works with them to evaluate whether the right structure and people are in place to reach the goals. &lt;/font&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;             &lt;font size="2"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Catalyst:&lt;/span&gt; The catalyst looks beyond the mandate to how to achieve the objectives and create a sustainable high performance organization. He’s met with thought leaders throughout the organization and encouraged his team to do so as well. He’s engaged three levels and more in an interactive strategic planning process. When he finds resistance in the organization, he seeks creative solutions that support execution of the developing plans.&lt;/font&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;             &lt;font size="2"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Co-Creator:&lt;/span&gt; The co-creator knows that she will need to achieve the desired business outcomes and develop a high performance organization, but she additionally sets her sights on how to be an industry leader in corporate responsibility. She outlines her short-, near-, and long-term vision for the organization; she engages people inside and outside the firm in questions of how to strengthen relationships, and she models and coaches her team on collaboration and broad accountability. The co-creator drives the ongoing message of how profitability and social responsibility go hand-in-hand.&lt;/font&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;             &lt;font size="2"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Synergist:&lt;/span&gt; The synergist builds on all of his competencies in building collaborative teams, delivering results and driving organizational change. He creates a leadership team that can collective drive the vision with the organization, freeing the synergist to focus on building unique, varied, and ground-shifting partnerships, collaborations. The synergist asks the questions about how to deliver the results in the right way, with the right people and bring about positive change in the world at large. &lt;/font&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;             &lt;font size="2"&gt;Each level builds on the skills, experiences and competencies of the prior levels. Each requires more of the leader in terms of context-setting, stakeholder engagement, creativity and self-leadership. The question to ask is which level would you like to have as your leader, and at which level are you demonstrating leadership? &lt;/font&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;             &lt;font size="2"&gt;In subsequent postings, we’ll explore each of these five levels in more detail and look at how to develop the competencies in how leadership is viewed, pivotal conversations, agility in leading teams, and organizational change that move leaders up the levels. &lt;/font&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
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Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-6576993987855053320</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 21:03:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-09-12T05:07:05.358+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>conflict</category><title>Too Nice Organizations?</title><description>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-STYLE: italic;font-family:verdana;" &gt;&lt;em&gt;"There's very little conflict in our company."&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;p style="FONT-STYLE: italic;font-family:verdana;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"This is a really nice place to work; everyone gets along."&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-STYLE: italic;font-family:verdana;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;"Whenever there are differences of opinion, they are easily resolve."&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sounds like a great place to work, doesn't it? Or does it? Can an organization be too nice? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;This issue explores the question of whether creativity and innovation are founded on differences - differences of perspective, differences of opinion, and dare we say it, a bit of conflict. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;hr width="150"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="COLOR: rgb(0,0,128); FONT-WEIGHT: bold"&gt;The Role of Conflict in Creativity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;What is creativity? MacKinnon in his book In Search of Human Effectiveness: Identifying and Developing Creativity defines five criteria: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;novelty and originality &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;an adaptation to reality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;capable of being produced, sustained, evaluated, elaborated, developed, and communicated to others&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;true and beautiful or "aesthetically pleasing" &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;creating "new conditions of human existence, transcending and transforming the generally accepted experience of man by introducing new principles that defy tradition and change radically man's view of the world." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Are all five criterion essential? The truly innovative organizations strive to meet all five. The rest, in order to survive and thrive within an environment of rapid, unceasing change, need to novel, original products, services and processes that both the requirements of reality, continuous development and understandability. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Rothenberg in Creativity and Madness, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;proposes that true creative inspiration results from unconscious anxieties within the creator. By grappling with the effort to understand the genuine meaning of an inspiration or idea, the creator resolves the conflict by gaining insight, and, perhaps, generating a product. Creativity, then, is a process that begins when one recognizes a problem, not immediately apparent, to be solved. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Conflict occurs when two or more "people have incompatible interest, goals, principles or feelings" (Capobianco, Davis, and Kraus) and further, when these points of view appear to create limitations upon one another. The differences may be express covertly or overtly, resulting in a competition,&lt;br /&gt;or conflict.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="font-family:verdana"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;In fact, Ulrich and Smallwood content that "Leadership inevitably involves conflict". Leaders are the ones called upon to take risks, decide on the close calls, and influence change. By their very nature, strong leaders recognize that some portion of their audience is unlikely to agree with them, while some are open to being convinced&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="COLOR: rgb(0,0,0);font-family:verdana;" align="left" &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Yet many potentially strong leaders and organizations &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;are embarrassed by conflict, and refuse to deal with it openly. Sy Landau notes that this attitude forces conflict underground, where at best it limits creativity and at works, it festers and spreads.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Innovative leaders and organization recognize that it is only in opening up to all points of view, that truly creative solutions can be found. What can you do to improve the conflict-competence of your leadership, team and organization? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Define the need for creativity within your organizational and strategic construct&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Address and resolve systemic and structural issues that are not aligned with your strategy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Create a language and skill set that enables constructive conflict&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Ensure a climate of trust, safety and respect for other perspectives and experiences &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Teach people how to separate personal conflict from task conflict &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;So what's your thinking? Can an organization be too nice? Are the differences of perspective, differences of opinion, and dare we say it, conflict being swept buried? What new ideas, products, services and processes might be generated if the differences were brought to light by conflict-competent team?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;If you'd like to learn more about how to build conflict-competent leaders and teams, please contact me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-6576993987855053320?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/09/too-nice-organizations.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-80146107216480447</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2009 20:21:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-09-07T21:00:38.027+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>organizational awareness</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>politics</category><title>Experience Meetings a New Way</title><description>&lt;span style=";font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;"  &gt;This posting is based on and adapted from the section "Seeing from Within an Organization" in the book Presence by Senge, Scharmer, Jaworski and Flowers. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:100%;"  &gt;Edgar Schein, a founder of the field of organizational psychology, said "If you want to understand an organization's culture, go to a meeting."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To experience meetings in a new way, consider how you can apply Schein's insights in a systematic way. Rather than participating normally, pay attention to what is going on ... and to your own reactions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;ul  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Who speaks? Who doesn't?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;What issues are addressed? Which are avoided?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;What's the pink elephant in the room that no one will mention?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Who is listened to? Who isn't?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;What kinds of words figure promptly in the language of the powerful? the ignored?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;What can you learn from the body language?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:100%;"  &gt;For the aficionado of meetings and office politics, there's nothing new to those questions.  Where the new learning often comes is through reflecting on your own thoughts and feelings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;During the meeting, take quick note of your reactions. Later look at the event in detail, consider what you heard, what you say, and what you felt.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;ul  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;When do you feel safe? feel threatened?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;When are you confused? When are you clear on what is being said?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Where were you fully present and engaged? Where were you distracted?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Were you feeling conflict? feeling in agreement?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;What assumptions of your own are you noticing?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:100%;"  &gt;Then stretch your experience even further and imagine how different people were experiencing the same events.  What do you learn about yourself by imagining the experience of others?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In spending the time to process your experience over a series of meetings alone and with your coach, you will deepen your understanding of the organization's culture - its norms, beliefs and fundamental assumptions. You can start to see yourself as a part of that culture, noticing where you contribute to the patterns of behavior. And perhaps you'll finally ask yourself the question,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;blockquote  style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;What am I doing - in my actions, thoughts and feelings - to maintain these patterns as they are?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;... and then,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;blockquote  style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Is this what I want to be doing?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-80146107216480447?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/09/experience-meetings-new-way.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-4817815013855550700</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2009 13:51:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-09-04T21:51:44.901+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>success</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>career stallers</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Sherry L Read</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>conflict</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>achievement</category><title>Is Hard Work Enough?</title><description>&lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;You've met them - the colleagues and friends who are dedicated to their job. They spend 12 hours a day, nights and weekends meeting with customers, solving problems, researching alternatives, writing reports, making presentations, delivering results; yet others get the opportunities and promotions. They are as smart (or possibly smarter) than their bosses. They can see the problems and solutions. They know what should be done. And look at the work they continue to deliver. Maybe if they just work a bit harder?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;In their book, &lt;a href="http://cts.vresp.com/c/?ReadSolutionsGroup/eb6e4ae111/0eab3e38fd/c9c9dd4645/ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=readsolutions-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0609610570"&gt;Execution&lt;/a&gt;, Larry Bossidy and Ram Charan talk about the&lt;b&gt; &lt;/b&gt;"doer" - "the person who is a little less conceptual but is absolutely determined to succeed will usually find the right people and get them together to achieve objectives". The doer doesn't hang his or her hat on the right answer, the right solution, the correct and detailed report. The doers are the ones "who energize people, are decisive on tough issues, get things done through others, and follow through as second nature."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;  &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;Energizing Others&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;Energy starts with a vision and direction; yet the leaders who create, rather than drain energy from their colleagues and teams, are the ones who turn that picture of success into short-term accomplishments, increased capabilities and increased confidence. Think of the coaches who stand on the sidelines yelling at their teams, where the players operate from fear of failure. Now think of the coaches who keep the focus on the next play, point on the good moves, identify what should be done differently next time, and push the players to prepare well physically and mentally for each game. It's not just the rhetoric, it's not the vision of a winning game, it's the focus on each step toward the winning game.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;Being Decisive&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;Being decisive and being right are too often confused in the minds of those colleagues working all hours. Being right can lead to over-analysis. It can lead to an answer that is optimal but too radical. It can lead to rigidity when flexibility is required.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;By contrast, "decisiveness is the ability to make difficult decisions swiftly and well, and act on them", according to Bossidy and Charan. It is the combination of the ability to confront a tough situation, make a sound decision,and lead others forward, that can separate the good thinker from the doer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;Achieving Through and With Others&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;Yet as pointed out above, the good decision, well-articulated, is insufficient for true success. It is only through developing and using influence skills that the doer accomplishes the necessary outcomes. The successful doer builds a social network that enables her to stay on top of shifting organizational priorities and maintain valuable relationships. He knows how much support to ask for, and when. She knows where she can count on support and where she has something of value that will help to gain support. He knows that communication up, down and sideways on the objectives, key steps, milestones, challenges, and achievements is key for keeping an initiative on track and people supportive of the outcomes. She has learned that organizations are made of interdependent people, and only by developing in herself, and in others, new and better ways to work together will success be achieved. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;When you see your colleagues with their head down, working all hours, striving for the best, and wondering why they seem to be passed over time and time again, ask them to consider the following:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ul style="font-family: verdana;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;What portion of your time is spent getting to the right answer compared to making sure you understand whether you are working on the current priorities? Compare that picture with others. What might be the benefits of shifting your time allocation? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;What portion of your time is spent on task vs      relationship? How does that compare to the people being promoted? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;What is your energy like on a daily basis?      Are you creating or draining the energy of the people around you?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;Are you making decisions on issues at the      right level for your job, neither too detailed, nor too high-level? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;What systems do you have in place to keep      informed about shifting organizational (and personal) priorities? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;Do you adjust your approach to meet the needs      of the people around you?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;How can you learn more about the needs and wants of the people who work above, along side, and for you? What can you do with that information that supports both their success and your own?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;How do you handle conflict in ways that      advance your cause?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;What ways do you have of getting clear and effective feedback and of continually developing yourself?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;Strong skills, talents, and hard work are prerequisites to success, yet they are insufficient in most organizations. Working up, down and sideways; knowing your own and other's motivators; enhancing energy; being decisive at the right level; and knowing how to influence others, frequently outweigh working hard to find the correct answer. Most often, a range of solutions will work - the win then goes to the one who can bring about the results, while building capability and energy for the next challenge in the people around them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;If you'd like to learn more about how to develop behaviors in your organization that deliver results while building capability and energy, please contact me. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-4817815013855550700?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/09/is-hard-work-enough.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-1556426407250390598</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 11:48:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-27T19:49:36.184+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Sherry L. Read</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>career stallers</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Sherry L Read</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>change</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>derailers</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>adapting to change</category><title>Challenges in Adapting</title><description>&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Recent posts have been exploring the seven behaviors most commonly seen in derailing a career. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;[Links connect to original publication in Read Solutions Group newsletter.]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Believing that skill and results are the sole keys to success&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://cts.vresp.com/c/?ReadSolutionsGroup/9fe83eeb5c/0eab3e38fd/28c9ffc92d"&gt;Being arrogant&lt;/a&gt; and not open to feedback, introspection and personal growth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Consistently acknowledging yourself for the &lt;a href="http://cts.vresp.com/c/?ReadSolutionsGroup/9fe83eeb5c/0eab3e38fd/20d2fb8a5f"&gt;successes&lt;/a&gt; and blaming others for the failures&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Failing to staff and &lt;a href="http://cts.vresp.com/c/?ReadSolutionsGroup/9fe83eeb5c/0eab3e38fd/af37eba6cc"&gt;develop a strong team&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://cts.vresp.com/c/?ReadSolutionsGroup/9fe83eeb5c/0eab3e38fd/b5f9207999"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Lack of composure&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Unwilling to adapt to change and compromise&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Inability to &lt;a href="http://cts.vresp.com/c/?ReadSolutionsGroup/9fe83eeb5c/0eab3e38fd/a0cb7c5a47"&gt;develop a strong professional network&lt;/a&gt;, internal and external to the organization.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana;font-size:85%;" &gt;From the final two career stallers – willingness to change and expecting results to be the key to success – with change present in my life, we’ll focus on the outcomes of resisting change and compromise, what might ensue during a change and how you can support yourself and others in change and compromise.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Let’s start with some definitions appropriate for this career staller, offered by www.dictionary.com:&lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;To adapt is to adjust oneself to different conditions, environment, etc.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Change, the noun, means the supplanting of one thing by another.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;To compromise is to settle difference by mutual concessions; an agreement reached by adjustment of conflicting or opposing claims, principles, etc., by reciprocal modification of demands.&lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;An alternative definition for compromise used, as a noun, is an endangering, especially of reputation; exposure to danger, suspicion, etc.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Willingness is freedom from reluctance; readiness of the mind to do or forbear. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;This staller appears in the person who seems to resist new programs, philosophies or even people. &lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;They may be seen as disagreeing inappropriately, vocally, or perhaps subversively with senior management. &lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Conversely, Buckingham and Clifton in their book, &lt;a href="http://cts.vresp.com/c/?ReadSolutionsGroup/9fe83eeb5c/0eab3e38fd/adfec4b139/ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=readsolutions-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0743201140"&gt;Now, Discover Your Strengths&lt;/a&gt; define the person with a strength in adaptability as one who lives in the moment, seeing the future not as a fixed destination but one that is discovered a choice at a time.&lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;The adaptable person responds willingly to current demands, even if pulled from original plans. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;With credit markets and currencies gyrating wildly, with companies turning overnight from sound financial institutions to those warranting a government bailout, an ever-increasing pace of change is a certainty.&lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;If so, then does adaptability become even more important – perhaps a key competency to develop?&lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;Adaptable behaviors will involve a readiness to explore change, openness to new ideas and the opinions of others, and skill at challenging ideas and people in constructive ways.&lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;At the base is what Runde and Flanagan in &lt;a href="http://cts.vresp.com/c/?ReadSolutionsGroup/9fe83eeb5c/0eab3e38fd/b953ebc960/ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=readsolutions-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0787984701"&gt;Becoming a Conflict Competent Leader: How You and Your Organization Can Manage Conflict Effectively&lt;/a&gt; define as the passive-constructive behavior of “adapting”. &lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;They define adapting behavior as “staying flexible and trying to make the best out of situation”. &lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;This can range from taking a positive attitude, to making adjustments that will minimize unnecessary problems in the future.&lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;At the most skillful level, active-constructive conflict behaviors include “perspective taking” and “creating solutions”; that is, the ability to clearly understand the other person’s point of view and then to work with them to arrive at a resolution.&lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;At the heart of change is conflict – conflict in perceptions of the “right way”, conflict in understanding, conflict in expected outcomes, conflicts in beliefs and knowledge, conflicts with prior experience.&lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;Increasing skills in conflict management becomes key in improving adaptability. &lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;When we are clearer on whether a change is worth it, and learn how to make the change, then we can move forward. &lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Skillful conflict management enables an individual to dig into the why, to be clear on the impact, to explore what is known and what is not, and then to create a solution that skirts endangerment and allows for broader success. &lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Runde and Flanagan offer the following suggestions for these constructive conflict behaviors:&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Listen to understand rather than debate&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Practice active listening to ensure that you are clearly hearing the message&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Never stop at one potential solution&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Explore the viability of multiple options to gain greater understanding of the constraints&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Gain agreement on the path forward and possible future decision points&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Not only is change inevitable, the pace of change continues to accelerate. &lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;So, where does that leave the serenity prayer that suggests that you should “ask for the serenity to accept the things you cannot change, the courage to change the things you can, and the wisdom to know the difference?” &lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Perhaps the wisdom lies in knowing that the only thing in our lives over which we have control is ourselves. &lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;When we couple with that the wisdom that changing ourselves can be extraordinarily difficult, perhaps we’ll also find the courage and skill to willingly adapt to change. &lt;span style="font-size:+0;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-1556426407250390598?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/08/challenges-in-adapting.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-2128768784356744939</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 12:07:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-20T20:29:37.092+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>career stallers</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>Sherry L Read</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>composure</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>achievement</category><title>Maintain Your Composure</title><description>&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Few articles start without an internet search, and this one was no different.I found that among the definitions of composure a band named Composure and a number of drugs, including one for pets. Merriam-Webster Online defines composure as a "calmness or repose especially of mind, bearing, or appearance: self-possession." I couldn't resist following the link to self-possession and finding this further definition, "control of one's emotions or reactions especially when under stress: presence of mind." And on to presence of mind to find "self-control so maintained in an emergency or in an embarrassing situation that one can say or do the right thing. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As I followed this trail, the challenges with our language became clear. Dictionary.com defines composure as "serene, self-controlled state of mind; calmness; tranquility", yet I suspect few of the leaders giving people development feedback are asking them to become tranquil. Rather, pulling together the Merriam Webster trail, composure as we use it in the workplace is about controlling one's reactions, especially under stress, in order to say or do the right thing. It's not about being perpetually calm. It's not even about controlling your emotion: passion is fine, anger is not. It's about what you CHOOSE to do, say, or display and therefore about gaining control.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How do you gain control? Become aware of your hot buttons. When do you become especially upset? Are you bothered by people who are unreliable? What about people who are untrustworthy? Does close monitoring of work, perhaps micro-managing make you crazy? Perfectionisms? Too much detail? Sarcasm? Insults? Roadblocks? Yelling? Once you have identified your hot button(s), reflect on what in these situations causes you the biggest concern. Consider what steps you can take to minimize or avoid situations where your hot buttons are triggered. Evaluate how you would prefer to respond in future situations. Develop a set of strategies for cooling down, for riding it out, or for changing the dynamic. Consider ways in which you might be able to have a positive impact on the situation or person, before, during or after the event. Enlist a partner in providing feedback, intervening, or making suggestions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Change requires a number of steps: identifying your goals, defining actions, experimenting, getting feedback, staying the course and celebrating the win. If lack of composure is something that might be holding back someone in your organization, consider using feedback, assessments, coaches, observation, and experimentation to assist them in their development.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Remember, when you hear a message about composure, it is is not about stress reduction, achieving tranquility or creating a calm environment. It is about saying, doing and modeling the right things under stress.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Always keep your composure.&lt;br /&gt;You can't score from the penalty box; and to win, you have to score. &lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bobby Hull, Canadian Hockey Player&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-2128768784356744939?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/08/maintain-your-composure.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-5473019949522324410</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 19:26:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-12T03:27:41.386+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>LinkedIn</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>network</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>networking</category><title>Why Bother Networking?</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Between your work responsibilities, home life and a bit of socializing, how could you possibly fit in networking?  Unfortunately, leaving the development of a strong professional network at the bottom of your priority list could prove to be a career derailer.  It is the professional and personal relationships that you form inside and outside an organization that give you the edge and the ability to leverage your skills and abilities in delivering results.   &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;In "&lt;a href="http://cts.vresp.com/c/?ReadSolutionsGroup/8461d801d6/d7b52b9894/6ac7b17bdb"&gt;Networking is vital for successful managers&lt;/a&gt;", Herminia Ibarra provides a framework for thinking about your networks.  She identifies three types: operational, personal and strategic.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;The operational network is the relationships you develop in order to get your work done.  This may your link into human resources, your peers, or the finance organization.  No doubt, you have already created this network. The question is whether you have gone beyond your day to day job and sought connections with people in other parts of the organization?  Whether you are networking with people who can give you new perspectives, offer insights into the motivations of those you seek to influence, and keep you apprised of changes in the organizational dynamic?    &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Personal networks occur in alumni associations, on the golf course, with former colleagues, and with neighbors.  While these networks may require less frequent interaction, ignoring them leaves you vulnerable should a career shift occur.  It is this network that most people lean on when making a career change. Predicting when you will need to call on this network is quite difficult in the face of ongoing acquisition and divestiture activity, combined with an economic downturn. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;It is only with careful planning that leaders build and use strategic networks.  These are the networks that provide insights into what is occurring in your industry, profession and related technologies.  Whether seeking an innovative idea, a pre-emptive business strategy or a quick job change, the strategic network provides the strongest leaders an advantage in both "what they know" and "who they know".  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Time may be the obvious answer to why networks are nourished by rising managers and leaders.  Yet truer reason is that many people find networking difficult or distasteful. Certainly if the network is built only to use in a crisis, when the connections are insincere, the process can seem manipulative.  The reality is that networks should be built on respect and nurtured to provide mutual benefit.  The networker generous with his connections, knowledge and information will find his network expands rapidly when needed, if ever. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Professional networking sites such as &lt;a href="http://cts.vresp.com/c/?ReadSolutionsGroup/8461d801d6/d7b52b9894/692d1804f2"&gt;LinkedIn&lt;/a&gt; allow you to connect and to reconnect with classmates, former colleagues and others you may have lost touch with.  When you connect, take a moment to engage in an email exchange to update the relationship and to reestablish the relationship.  When you can build networks that encompass broad differences of backgrounds and experiences, you greatly enhance your capability of reaching out the person who can help you the most, whether with information or contacts. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Remember to: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ol start="1" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Be sincere - everyone has an interesting      story, perspective or history&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Tahoma&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Don't      ask for (or expect) payback&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Tahoma&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Respect      other people's time&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Tahoma&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Follow      through on promises&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Tahoma&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Say      thank-you. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;  &lt;p style="text-align: center;" align="center"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;"It is not what you know, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="text-align: center;" align="center"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;it is not who you know, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="text-align: center;" align="center"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;it is what you know about who you know."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-5473019949522324410?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/08/why-bother-networking.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-6836374861836347950</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 13:39:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-12T03:18:06.298+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>strengths</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>career development</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>results</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>HR</category><title>Develop strength; deliver value</title><description>&lt;span style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;strong style="COLOR: rgb(0,0,0)"&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana;font-size:85%;" &gt;Good managers, and certainly every coach, asks you what you believe are your strengths. Following shortly after that will be a discussion of the area you want to work on. Marshall Goldsmith and David Ulrich carry this exercise one step further - they ask you to think about how you can build on your strengths in a way that will strengthen others.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Think about the implications of that for just a moment. The question then becomes "How can you build upon your strengths in a way that will deliver improved results through others?" &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;In an article in &lt;a href="http://cts.vresp.com/c/?ReadSolutionsGroup/0d60a7cd7a/d7b52b9894/9926147c36"&gt;Workforce Management&lt;/a&gt;, David Ulrich, a leading thinker in Leadership and Human Resources, offers suggestions to HR professionals on how they can build their strengths with the goal of increased value to their organizations. He highlights the following:&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul style="FONT-FAMILY: verdana"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Focus on outcomes, not activities - Always be able to finish your work proposals with "so that ...."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Help leaders define their results - What is all that development and building on strength going to bring about in terms of business results?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Build a positive culture from the outside in - Start with what the company wants to be known for by the customers and investors.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Be a contributor by working with business leaders on their issues - How do your HR programs help the business deliver its financial and customer objectives?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Be curious - Learn about the business, the leaders, the customers, and focus your learning on how you can help them succeed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-6836374861836347950?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/07/develop-strength-deliver-value.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-7885221799029941939</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 11:46:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-17T19:51:09.776+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>executive coach</category><title>CEO Best Advice - Get a Coach</title><description>&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;Eric Schmidt of Google suggests in this short Fortune video clip that every successful person needs a coach. He notes that the one thing that most of us need help with with is seeing themselves as others see them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://money.cnn.com/video/fortune/2009/06/19/f_ba_schmidt_google.fortune/"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://money.cnn.com/video/fortune/2009/06/19/f_ba_schmidt_google.fortune/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-weight: bold;"&gt;What do you think?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-7885221799029941939?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/07/ceo-best-advice-get-coach.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-2681342315263463738</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 19:47:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-17T04:03:24.447+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>lean</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>six sigma</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>leadership</category><title>How do leaders get in the way of Lean, Six Sigma and other improvement projects?</title><description>How have you seen leaders get in the way or slow down lean, six sigma and other improvement projects?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-2681342315263463738?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/07/how-do-leaders-get-in-way-of-lean-six.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-7631745812358439542</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 18:57:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-14T02:59:38.189+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>success</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>career stallers</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>validation</category><title>Sharing Success</title><description>&lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; When projects succeed, when proposals are accepted, when businesses exceed their targets, do you take the credit? When things go wrong, do you blame the team, blame the economy, blame some undefined others? &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;How do you feel when your leadership brags to the shareholders about the business success ... and blames you when the results don't meet the plan?&lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;When we blame others for failures, we lose the ability to look at our own behaviors and contributions to the failures. When we blame others for the failures, we lose their support, commitment and engagement with future efforts. When we bask in the light of success, without sharing it, we run the risk of undermining future support and lose the opportunity to develop and highlight the talent in our organizations. &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;John C. Maxwell says "Let those you lead outshine you. If they shine brightly enough, it's reflected on you." Organizations today look to their leaders to deliver results in an effective manner and to develop the talent in the organization. By privately and publicly acknowledging the contributions and results of others, you strengthen the network that will enable your success in future situations, you encourage continued contributions from others, and you motivate others to excel.&lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The next time there's a problem or a success, pay attention to language. Problem's are best handled with "I" statements that accept responsibility for the situation and subsequent action items. When there's a success to be discussed, it's best in terms of "We / He / She / the team". &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Finally, consider all of the possible forms of acknowledgment that you can use.  David Rock in his book, &lt;a href="http://cts.vresp.com/c/?ReadSolutionsGroup/0d60a7cd7a/d7b52b9894/e4fe32d74d/ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=readsolutions-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0060835915"&gt;Quiet Leadership&lt;/a&gt;, outlines six forms of verbal recognition that serve as a good reminder to the ways that we can acknowledge, coach, motivate and recognize others.&lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;ul style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Appreciation               - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I really appreciate you completing that report on time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Validation               &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;- I can see you’ve given this report a lot of thought and attention.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Recognition               &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;- It’s clear you are a very talented writer. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Affirmation               - &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I think you deserve all the credit for this project.&lt;br /&gt;             &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Confirmation               &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;- It’s great you took on this project; it suits your style. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Thanking               &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;- Thanks for taking the time to focus 100% on this project.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;When you cultivate a solutions focus to problems and failures, and combine that with praising efforts and rewarding results, you will find your team making the extra effort to deliver the results that will reflect well on you. &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Read Solutions Group works with organizations and leaders to develop an understanding of the business and organizational challenges, develop the direction appropriate for the culture and size of the organization, provide focused targeted training and/or facilitated workshops, and support the delivery of a solution. Whether one-on-one with key leaders or working hand-in-hand with your leadership team, Sherry Read will stimulate the creative thought processes to generate a wider range of practical, value-adding solutions to business, managerial and human resource issues.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-7631745812358439542?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/07/sharing-success.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-2720874676778891124</guid><pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 20:14:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-06-28T04:16:36.195+08:00</atom:updated><title>Help me with my Branding</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Could you take 5 minutes to give me some input? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;I am gathering the thoughts of leaders, managers and professionals around the world in order to best position my business to meet your needs.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;The survey has only 3 questions plus a space for any additional comments you may have. It's short and sweet, and like all feedback, incredibly valuable to me.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://cts.vresp.com/c/?ReadSolutionsGroup/ee13fa09da/TEST/f916f63d20/sm=7N3nMv_2b03qcF9lrQxWqRug_3d_3d"&gt;Click here to take survey&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Thank you for helping me to be the best I can be.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Georgia&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Sherry L. Read &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Principal&lt;br /&gt;Read Solutions Group&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/"&gt;www.ReadSolutionsGroup.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="mailto:Sherry@ReadSolutionsGroup.com"&gt;Sherry@ReadSolutionsGroup.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;+1 (302) 545-2892 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-2720874676778891124?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/06/help-me-with-my-branding.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-8737214209751278940</guid><pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2009 16:48:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-06-27T23:44:24.575+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>ROI</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>time management</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>return on investment</category><title>Time is Money</title><description>&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;Whether in a matrix organization with different functions and bosses, in a job that combines project work with team management or as a entrepreneur with too many opportunities to pursue, most of us are pulled in too many directions at once.  You may have set a resolution to get your time under control, yet one month into the year, the fires seem to be burning hotter than ever before. Here are a few tips for taking back your time. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Look at your professional time in terms of Return on Investment (ROI). Some efforts provide a quick fast return, others are an investment with returns to be delivered in the future. Too often, though, we spend our time on efforts that use up our precious time and reap little or no reward. Standard financial axioms include set your priorities, create a plan and track yourself against it, cut back on waste, don't procrastinate on taking action, allow for the unexpected, invest in the future, and get help.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;The challenge is that time remains a fixed budget - it doesn't accrue, you can't grow it with investment - but you can make choices on what you do, when you do them and what you can stop doing.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-8737214209751278940?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/05/time-is-money.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-3001355256483316186</guid><pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2009 16:46:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-06-24T23:41:37.454+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>leadership competencies</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>certified professional coach</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>derailers</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>high potential employees</category><title>Is Coaching a Fad?</title><description>&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;" &gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-size:85%;" &gt;With so many organizations rushing to develop programs for managers as coaches, is coaching turning into a fad?  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;A recent presentation sponsored by the Human Capital Institute, and given by Peyton Daniel and Anne Doster of DBM gave the statistics that over 80% of the respondents to their survey used "coaching skills training" at least sometimes, and nearly 70% were using external executive coaches at least sometimes.  Now, survey samples are notoriously, so we don't want you to conclude that coaching is, as yet, that prevalent.  But could it be well on its way to becoming too fashionable for its own good?  The perquisite to go with the corner office?  The emblem of the high-potential?  The consultant's favorite gig?&lt;/span&gt;              &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Before we dismiss coaching and mentoring as another passing fad, let's look at more closer what current research is showing us about executive coaching.  &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;ul style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Executive coaching is found increasingly on a routine basis for C-level execs, and both less frequently and less often for senior executives; and almost never for non-managers.&lt;br /&gt;             &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The primary drivers for coaching are:&lt;/span&gt;               &lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Derailed executives&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Enabling capable executives to achieve greater excellence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Supporting the development of high-potential employees&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Improving team effectiveness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;               &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Executive cite benefits for coaching to include&lt;/span&gt;               &lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Continuous one-on-one attention&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Expanded thinking through dialogue with a curious outsider&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Increased self-awareness, including blind spots&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Personal accountability for development&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Effective learning delivered just-in-time&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;               &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Coaching failures are linked to&lt;/span&gt;               &lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Lack of commitment from the client&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Lack of clear goals and purpose&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Client too busy to focus on developmental goals&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;A mismatch between client and coach&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Client's manager is not involved or supporting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;               &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;ROI ranges from the value of the coaching investment up to more than 500% depending on study cited&lt;br /&gt;             &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Successful coaching engagements have:&lt;/span&gt;               &lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Coach evaluation including                 &lt;/span&gt;                 &lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Coaching methodology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Senior-level business, industry and/or functional experience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Chemistry with client&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Measurement system&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;                 &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;A&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; willing client&lt;/span&gt;                 &lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Open to increasing their self-awareness and enhancing their personal growth&lt;br /&gt;                 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Entering coaching with enthusiasm, interest and a commitment of time&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;                 &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Measure the ROI of all coaching assignments using&lt;/span&gt;                 &lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Achievement of agreed-upon objectives, including performance metrics as appropriate&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Evaluations by client, clients boss, and coach&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;360 assessments&lt;br /&gt;                 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;                 &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Clear expectations around the process from initial meeting, overall time commitment (typical agreements are 4 to 6 months, twice per month), confidentiality, and management support and involvement&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;               &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;David B. Peterson, in a chapter on Coaching and Mentoring Programs, adds depth to this research report by outlining the major assumptions around effective coaching.  His assumptions about positive, proactive coaching are modified and included below.&lt;br /&gt;           &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;                          &lt;ul style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;People are motivated to learn and grow; the coach's role is to clarify and engage that motivation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Insight is ever-evolving and should be developed through the coaching process, whether initiated with a current situation or a 360 assessment&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;While coach can and does provide feedback, the main goal of the coaching is to enable the client to gather and gain their own insights&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Coaches should be expert in helping people learn how to change and adjust their behaviors to become more effective, with a goal of enhancing ongoing learning and development&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Coaching is about achieving results by working on the areas of greatest leverage and payback.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;                          &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The executive coaching methodology practiced at Read Solutions Groups is then to provide customized coaching that moves iteratively through the following steps:&lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;ul style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Clarify personal goals, values and motivations&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Develop insights into what needs to be developed&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Establish and agree to measures for success&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Evaluate reasons for and barriers to change&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Explore or chose alternative ways of behaving&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Practice new skills and behaviors&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Develop action plan and measure progress, watching for additional insights&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Ensure that other people and structures are put in place to support progress and ongoing feedback&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;So, is coaching a fad? Studies, whether focused on feedback from executives, clients or HR, point to solid returns on the investment of coaching when the systems employ recommendations like those above.  &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;a href="mailto:solutions@readsolutionsgroup.com?subject=References%20on%20Executive%20Coaching"&gt;Email us&lt;/a&gt; to receive references to additional studies on executive coaching.&lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-3001355256483316186?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/05/is-coaching-fad.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-3818944577067525087</guid><pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2009 16:44:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-06-01T21:04:27.907+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>career stallers</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>building teams</category><title>Steps in Building a Strong Team</title><description>&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:verdana;" &gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;              &lt;/span&gt;                          &lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;                   &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;p&gt;                          &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;      &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;             &lt;img src="http://img.mi.vresp.com/media/8/8/e/88e2dce4bd/0ece1e1265/8d52c76220/library/puzzle%20piece.jpg" alt="puzzle piece.jpg" align="left" border="5" height="125" width="150" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"  &gt;There are three key steps to building a strong team.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;             &lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;1. Own the development process &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;              &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"  &gt;      &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;" &gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;A strong leader holds himself or herself accountability for the development of others. Research suggests that the most successful leaders, over the long-term, spend upwards of 50% of their time focused on the issues of their team and the people in the organizations.  Beyond time, the strong leader holds others accountable for development - requiring measures, reports and an equal focus on the development and leadership of talent in an organization.  Finally, the organization must build systems, process and rigor that support the identification, develop and measurement of talent and talent development. &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"  &gt;      &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;" &gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;      2. Balance the use of internal and external candidates &lt;/span&gt;              &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"  &gt;      &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;" &gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; Internal candidates, too often, are hampered by the very fact that they are known quantities.  Their history, their past blunders, their flaws are all part of the corporate stories.  Rather than being looked at from the perspective of current competencies and results, old stories reflecting old news are resurrected as evidence of an incomplete package.  External candidates bring a patina of freshness, and packaging focusing on their strengths and accomplishments. Hidden underneath this packaging lurk questions about flaws, motivations, and cultural fit.  While systems exist to reduce these risks, failure to integrate at more senior levels carries both high risk and a high impact on the organization.   &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"  &gt;      &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;" &gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;      3. Knit together complementary team skills &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"  &gt;      &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;" &gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; Each person brings their own strengths and limitations to the team.  While the first step is to recognize these differences, and to staff the team with complementary skills, the successful leader knits the team together.  With a clear understanding of each other's strengths, a strong vision for the future, a clear expectation for how the team are to work together, and a culture that supports and rewards working together to achieve goals, a leader can create a strong team that complements and supports one another.   &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;" &gt;             &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;To assess yourself, your team or your organization, consider the following:             &lt;/span&gt;             &lt;/p&gt;             &lt;ul style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;" &gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Does your team know their strengths?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Has the organization defined metrics and targets for people development?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Are there systems for identifying, developing and measuring talent?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Is there a staffing plan that balances internal development and staffing with external hires?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Are there established expectations about how teams work together?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Is there an environment where working together is encouraged and rewarded?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;             &lt;span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"  &gt; Read Solutions Group works with organizations and leaders to develop an understanding of the business and organizational challenges, develop the direction appropriate for the culture and size of the organization, provide focused targeted training and/or facilitated workshops, and support the delivery of a solution.  Whether one-on-one with key leaders or working hand-in-hand with your leadership team, Sherry Read will stimulate the creative thought processes to generate a wider range of practical, value-adding solutions to business, managerial and human resource issues. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-3818944577067525087?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/05/steps-in-building-strong-team.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-959859343967950943</guid><pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2009 16:43:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-05-26T19:48:22.091+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>arrogance</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>career stallers</category><title>Tackling the Derailer of Arrogance</title><description>&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Why is arrogance a problem? &lt;/span&gt;You are successful; you may even be the Managing Director or CEO. Why would you, of all people, need to worry that not being open to feedback, introspection or personal growth could derail your career? The 2003 book, Why CEOs Fail by D.L. Dotlich and P.C. Cairo identifies &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;arrogance&lt;/span&gt; - the belief that you're right and everyone else is wrong - as one of the leading causes of executive faillure. If it can bring down whole companies, what effect could it be having on your career?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;       &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;/p&gt;       &lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-size:100%;" &gt;      &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;p style="font-weight: bold; font-family: verdana;"&gt;       &lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;      &lt;img src="http://img.mi.vresp.com/media/8/8/e/88e2dce4bd/58aa69f69d/e99d37a4f5/library/megaphone.jpg" alt="megaphone.jpg" align="left" border="5" height="145" width="150" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;What are the behaviors that could lead to derailment? &lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;The arrogant leader may be self-confident to the point of making other feel inferior. By limiting or dismissing the input of others, the arrogant leader may miss or discount crucial information. He may seem self-absorbed, aloof and cold, bruising the egos of others on their team. She may been seen as too independent, promoting her own careers and success over others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;       &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;/p&gt;       &lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-size:100%;" &gt;      &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;       &lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;      &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How do you change? &lt;/strong&gt;Change begins with self-awareness. Replay your mental tapes of earlier discussions about your style.  Look carefully at the behaviors you portray at home where there may be more direct feedback. Have a 360 assessment done. Watch the reactions of others. Look for signs that your relationships are not what you believe them to be. Challenge your belief that your arrogance has supported your success.  &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;/p&gt;       &lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-size:100%;" &gt;      &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;       &lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;      &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Change requires that you begin to be curious about what others think; that you seek and accept feedback, holding tight against the natural tendency to defend and explain. Consider enlisting a confidant, coach or trusted colleague who can give you objective feedback, and help you assess and monitor your progress.&lt;/span&gt;       &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;/p&gt;       &lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-size:100%;" &gt;      &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;       &lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;      &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Look at situations where you've encountered significant roadblocks or failure, and write down the&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; answers to the following questions:&lt;/span&gt;       &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;/p&gt;       &lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-size:100%;" &gt;      &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;ol style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;                 &lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;What would your worst critics say contributed to the situations?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;         &lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;What behaviors did you use when you were stuck or close to failure?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;         &lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;What signals did you miss? &lt;/span&gt; &lt;/li&gt;         &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;       &lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-size:100%;" &gt;      &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;       &lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;      &lt;img src="http://img.mi.vresp.com/media/8/8/e/88e2dce4bd/58aa69f69d/e99d37a4f5/library/listening.jpg" alt="listening.jpg" align="right" height="128" width="100" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;With your trusted partner, identify the patterns of behavior &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;that &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;have &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;supported your&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; success, and also led to your difficulties. &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;/p&gt;       &lt;span style="font-family: verdana;font-size:100%;" &gt;      &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;       &lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;      &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The biggest adjustment in behavior comes in seeking, listening to and responding with sincere interest and curiousity to other's views and opinions.  As Marshall Goldsmith advises, leave out of your conversation the words, &lt;strong&gt;no&lt;/strong&gt;, &lt;strong&gt;but&lt;/strong&gt;, and &lt;strong&gt;however&lt;/strong&gt;, and add the words &lt;strong&gt;thank you&lt;/strong&gt;.  You may be surprised what you learn.  &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;/span&gt;       &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-959859343967950943?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/05/tackling-derailer-of-arrogance.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-4074982832428297058</guid><pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2009 16:38:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-05-18T00:41:25.539+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>career stallers</category><title>Seven Career Derailers</title><description>&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;"What is a career derailer?" you ask.  Imagine if you will a &lt;/span&gt;&lt;img style="font-family: verdana;" src="http://img.pcdn.vresp.com/media/8/8/e/88e2dce4bd/173c8ee68b/ae4fac6ff6/library/train_accident.jpg" alt="train_accident.jpg" align="right" border="2" height="140" width="140" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;successful professional, receiving promotions and raises with incredible frequency.  The titles get better and a team leader role follows.  Then a manager, and a department manager.  And then something happens.  Questions begin to be asked about whether she can build a team, whether he  can think strategically, whether she has what it takes.  That fast track career has stalled, or worse yet, fallen off the tracks - a career derailed.  This set of seven behaviors are among the ones most commonly seen in derailing a career.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;ul style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;" &gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Believing that skill and results are the sole keys to success&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Being arrogant and not open to feedback, introspection and personal growth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Consistently acknowledging yourself for the successes and blaming others for the failures&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Failing to staff and develop a strong team&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Lack of composure&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Unwilling to adapt to change and compromise&lt;br /&gt;      &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Inability to develop a strong professional network, internal and external to the organization&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;       &lt;p style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;" &gt;       &lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Research indicates that leaders who are open to feedback, introspection and personal growth can, and do, learn to overcome these potential career stallers.&lt;/span&gt;       &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-4074982832428297058?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/05/seven-career-derailers.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-7853878750413076847</guid><pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 08:50:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-03-23T16:58:18.840+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>opportunities</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>international coach academy</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>ICA</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>positivity</category><title>There are tons of positives in the world!</title><description>Enough with the dreary world news that ignores all that is good in the world and in our lives!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This week join the International Coach Academy (ICA), a global leader in coach training, in bringing about as much positive energy as we can. The huge economic crisis has created difficult or challenging times for many and we want to do something to acknowledge and support our global community.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Join us for one, or all, of our positivity teleclasses as we open up the virtual doors of ICA for the world to share their positivity intent. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Register now - &gt; &lt;a href="http://tinyurl.com/cy7tba"&gt;http://tinyurl.com/cy7tba&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;----------------------------------------&lt;br /&gt;POSITIVITY TELESEMINARS (23rd to 29th March 2009)&lt;br /&gt;----------------------------------------&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;** Positive Tips &amp; Personal Stories **&lt;br /&gt;With: Alexia Michiels&lt;br /&gt;When: Monday 23 March at 10 am NY EDT&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;** Positive Stories on Relationships **&lt;br /&gt;With: Angela Bird&lt;br /&gt;When: Tuesday 24 March at 7 pm NY EDT&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;** Positive Stories About Your Career as a Coach  **&lt;br /&gt;With: Prabha Chandrasekhar&lt;br /&gt;When: Wednesday 25 March at 10 am NY EDT&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;** Positive Stories on Social Responsibility **&lt;br /&gt;With: Isabelle King&lt;br /&gt;When: Thursday 26 March at 8 pm NY EDT&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;** Positive Perspective **&lt;br /&gt;With: Nick Bosk&lt;br /&gt;When: Friday 27 March at 10 am NY EDT&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;** Positive Opportunities **&lt;br /&gt;With:  Kathy Munoz&lt;br /&gt;When: Saturday 28 March at 10 am NY EDT&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;** Positive Retreat **&lt;br /&gt;With: Sheri Boone&lt;br /&gt;When: Sunday 29 March at 10 am NY EDT&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Register now - &gt; &lt;a href="http://tinyurl.com/cy7tba"&gt;http://tinyurl.com/cy7tba&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are unable to attend the teleclasses, please still register your positivity intent.  The teleclasses will be recorded and made available to all those who register.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-7853878750413076847?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/03/there-are-tons-of-positives-in-world.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36228513.post-1422392082652230049</guid><pubDate>Thu, 26 Feb 2009 20:29:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-02-27T04:30:59.475+08:00</atom:updated><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>expatriate solutions</category><category domain='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#'>expatriate packages</category><title>Kid's Eye View on Relo?</title><description>I was interviewed about experiences moving a child internationally in this article in HR Executive Online.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Relocating can mean a better job, better salary and increased responsibility -- but for children, it can mean disrupting school, friendships and activities. How can companies help turn those negatives around?  &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;See the article at &lt;a href="http://www.hreonline.com/HRE/story.jsp?storyId=169613755"&gt;http://www.hreonline.com/HRE/story.jsp?storyId=169613755&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;Sherry L. Read, Read Solutions Group: Coaching 
successful professionals who seek greater achievement 
in work, life,expatriation and repatriation.&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/36228513-1422392082652230049?l=www.readsolutionsgroup.com%2Fcoachblog.html' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.readsolutionsgroup.com/2009/02/kids-eye-view-on-relo.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Sherry L. Read)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></item></channel></rss>